Man Sues His First Date For Texting During Movie
37-year-old man is suing a Round Rock woman for texting during a movie date at the Barton Creek Square theater, Austin, Texas, according to a petition filed in small claims court in Travis County.
Brandon Vezmar filed the claim Thursday against his date. He is asking for $17.31, which was the price of the movie ticket to a 3D showing of “Guardians of the Galaxy, Vol. 2,” he told the American-Statesman Tuesday.
According to reports, everything was going fine until 15 minutes into the movie, when his date took out her phone and started texting.
At one point, it got too much for him to swallow, and he asked the woman to either stop texting or go into the lobby of the theater.
She left, and never came back, leaving without a ride home, as they had both arrived at the Barton Creek Square theater in her car.
He later texted Crystal to ask for his money back, and when she refused to pay the $17.31 price of the ticket, he had no choice but to take her to court for it.
The 35-year-old woman said she didn’t know about the claim against her. She asked that her name not be used.
“Oh my God,” she said. “This is crazy.”
Vezmar, who has his own communications consulting company, said he met the woman online and went with her on their first date May 6 to the movie.
“It was kind of a first date from hell,” Brandon told the Austin American-Statesman, adding that texting in a movie theater is one of his “biggest pet peeves”. In his court filing, he mentions that the defendant activated her phone “at least 10-20 times in 15 minutes to read and send text messages,” a claim that is disputed by his date. She says it was only a couple of time, and only because her friend had been in a fight with her boyfriend and needed support.
“I did have a very brief date with Brandon, that I chose to end prematurely. His behavior made me extremely uncomfortable, and I felt I needed to remove myself from the situation for my own safety,” Crystal, whose last name has not been revealed, told KVUE-TV.
“He has escalated the situation far past what any mentally healthy person would. I feel sorry that I hurt his feelings badly enough that he felt he needed to commit so much time and effort into seeking revenge. I hope one day he can move past this and find peace in his life.”
In the petition, Vezmar said the woman “activated her phone at least 10-20 times in 15 minutes to read and send text messages.”
Vezmar said he asked her to stop but she refused. He said he told her that maybe she could go outside to text. She left the theater and never came back, Vezmar said.
She also left in her car, which they had driven to the theater, leaving Vezmar without a ride, he said. He said he texted her a few days later asking for the price of the ticket but she refused to pay it.
The woman said Tuesday she only texted on her phone in the theater two or three times.
“I had my phone low and I wasn’t bothering anybody,” she said. She was texting a friend, who was having a fight with her boyfriend, she said. “It wasn’t like constant texting.”
She said Vezmar had called her to ask her to pay him back for the movie ticket but she refused because “he took me out on a date.”
She said she also planned to file a protective order against Vezmar for contacting her little sister to get the money for the movie ticket.
According to the petition, the texting was a “direct violation” of the theater’s policy and that his date “adversely” affected Vezmar’s viewing experience and that of other patrons.
“While damages sought are modest, the principle is important as defendant’s behavior is a threat to civilized society,” the petition said.
“I’m not a bad woman,” the woman told the Statesman. “I just went out on a date.”